So, I'm in an open relationship. Essentially, we can go on dates with other people. It's easier to handle, since he's going to be leaving on his mission before the year ends. Probably by fall. So, there's a guy in my Institute class named Drew. He looks like David Archuleta, just hotter. And David is on his mission. Drew is already back home. Anyways, so Drew asked me if I wanted to get ice cream with him this Saturday, and so I said yes. S.R.E. has been telling me to go on a date anyways. This is good.
...Ok, I KNOW that I have talked about S.R.E. in class before, or at least before. It's a small class, only nine people. We are like a family, we're all really close. And...I dunno, I just hope that Drew was paying attention to that. Becuase I don't know how to non-chalantly bring up the fact that hey, guess what, I have a boyfriend who is 6'3 and he ballroom dances, and cooks me lunch while serenading me shirtless.
Just KIDDING, he wears clothes :P
No but really, I legitamently hope that Drew knows that. Becuase he's a sweet guy. And I don't want to hurt him by getting to the end of the date and have him be like "so you're absolutely fabulous and I'm falling in love with you." More or less. And then I'll be like "That's cool..." AWKWARD PAUSE.
Marcy...what do I DO?!
-Ashlynne Rose
sorry I can't stop laughing at the "just kidding he wears clothes" hahaha I'm not gonna lie, your open relationship thing still weirds me out out, but whatever makes you guys happy but anywho, just tell him Ash. No other way. Just be like "uh hey dude, I just wanted to let you know, I am in an open relationship with a guy who's going on a mission soon (thus the open relationship). Don't worry! what were doing right now is allowed, we can go on dates with other people but I just wanted to let you know beforehand." And if he cares at all he will do a background check and realize he's 6'3" and does ballroom and all that jazz. But seriously, just tell him. and in the beginning not as an after thought because you think it make the date less awkward, I'm sure he would much rather have an awkward date then to realize all this at the end.
ReplyDeleteSo yeah, just tell him (use my exact words hahaha)
lol thanks hon, I think I knew that, I just needed the reassurance :)
ReplyDeletemost of us do c:
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